Men are not from Mars, they are from the land of " You need to get it together"

Yes once again I have been thoroughly harassed by she who must not be named for neglecting my blog. ........................................................................................................... I Just cannot understand men. We think so differently. Over the weekend i got the " i really like you " speech from a guy. Flattered as i was i asked him " but didn't you just break up with your girlfriend" and he goes " That was 3 months ago". Now for me 3 months is not a rational amount of time to be over someone but apparently for a guy it is. So i am intrigued by this concept. I further my experiment. Two friends. Used to date. Broke up. I ask the guy so are u ready to date and he is like of course we broke up 7months ago. I ask the girl and she is like they just broke up. It has only been 6 months In summary time passes very differently for guys than it does for girls. A girl can take a year to get over a douche bag or a perfectly nice guy and in contrast a guy is ready to date much quicker. Then again that may be because guys don't always take time out to heal. They just go about carrying old hurts and allowing it to change who they were. Tweh! .................................................................................................................. This week at work the only two people i am properly friends with had this huge public fight in the kitchen. It was so painful to watch. Sigh. I now had the pleasant job of explaining to them how they both messed up. Now their friendship is destroyed. I am quite glad that i learnt very early on that when u are angry do not throw personal insults. You can never take them back. Your words will fester and become a wound that will never heal. Oh well i am just going to have to learn to be friends with them individually as opposed to the group we once were. Speaking about work I have started my count down. ..................................................................................................................... Going out less and less and that is just the way I like it!